I’ve been in a relationship with my boss for about a year now. We are both married and therefore deserve all the disapproval in the world for such a foolish choice, I know. But since we started dating it’s as if we were reborn. We meet in the elevator, we go on business trips together, we send each other messages, we look at each other secretly… I’m slimmer, toned, I have bright skin and hair and I’m always cheerful. In short, this clandestine relationship makes me feel really good. But now he has decided to leave his wife. And I absolutely don’t want to leave my husband, much less “get engaged” to him. What do I do?
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Dear reader, what you are telling me is not a clandestine relationship, it is a spring disclosure, a food supplement, a cardiotonic… Lucky you, if you let me say so. I should probably be more morally correct and categorically advise her against being half an adulterer. But what do you want me to tell you? Hearing her so enthusiastic, happy, practically “reborn” pushes me to sympathize with her objectively questionable conduct. Above all, or rather exclusively, because so far no one has been hurt. Her husband doesn’t suspect anything (and perhaps he will in turn have the opportunity to enjoy the surprising “change” of the body of the woman next to him) and her lover’s wife doesn’t imagine anything either. But the fact that, so far, your happiness has not undermined anyone is, believe me, an integral part of your own state of grace. If this situation were to “explode” and if your spouses were to find out everything, I can guarantee you that all the benefits of this situation would melt like snow in the sun.
Especially since she has no intention of separating and getting engaged again. Please confess this openly to your lover and in every way prevent him from leaving his wife for a woman who, in reality, wants him in homeopathic doses.