It is the fifth time we go out, but nothing happens. I do not understand. I really like him, I also think I like him, but I don’t “try” … I don’t know what to do and I think he shouldn’t be a girl to come forward, to crown a courtship. I am Elisabetta Z., I am 25 years old, I study at the Medicine University; The person I am talking about is three years more than me, studied economics and recently started a managerial career. We met with friends, in a place. We are well together, alone we went to the cinema the first time, then a Sunday, a nice walk; The drinks between laughter and looks, finally for dinner … has taken me home but … nothing, he did nothing, does nothing. When it is time to greet us, it becomes like ice, cold, I would say tense, serious and nervous. What can I do to “bar”? I tried to dress in a “provocative” way, short skirt and dizzying heels, obvious makeup, strong color lipstick. I hug him joking, I look at him in the eye … in short, what should a girl do more? In the last few days, and I conclude, I have doubts. It is true that we frequent ourselves with a certain assiduity, even if nothing happened, but it is also true that he, more and more often, suddenly disappears, does not respond to the phone, nor at home, nor in the office … does he hide something? Maybe it’s already engaged … I don’t know how to behavior anymore. Can you recommend me? Thank you!
Elisabetta Z.
Dear Elisabetta, to the point where he talks about the attempt with provocative clothes and makeup, I thought of suggesting that he avoids any “aggression” because I had convinced myself that his new manager was a shy guy not to be pressing, one to whom he will grant soft times (among other things too, like her, I do not even take into consideration the fact that it is a woman who takes the first step: I think so much). But then I came to the strange disappearance of his friend and then the whole matter changes. Where and why do you disappear? At that point I completely changed my mind about giving him his time and ways. I believe it is on this it should work, speaking openly and demanding answers. It is true that it could reply that she does not “be together”, but not even a friend mysteriously faded.
He attends Elisabetta medicine, for the esteem I have towards the future profession that has chosen, I am convinced that she is a girl capable of everything. Let alone if he is not able to speak to a man. Courage.