The greats of the earth also do it: for four times ways, the Indian president would have refused to respond to Trump’s phone call. Not without reason: his American counterpart had not limited himself to doubled the duties, raising them from 25 to 50%, but with his usual delicacy he had also insulted and offended India, calling it “nothing else than the Russian laundry” and “a dead economy”. So is it to be surprised at the reaction of the leader of Nuova Delhi, who in recent days took part in the anti-western summit in China?
There is always a reason why someone does not respond to our phone calls, our messages, our emails: cases due to oversights are rare. And in any case they denotes, almost always, little interest, or irritation, or fear towards us. The usual justification “sorry, I had not noticed” is often false.
Most people don’t have the courage to face uncomfortable people. And to tell them in the face what he thinks, and who wants. It is easier to disappear. Or do ghosting, as they say today: to vanish, like a ghost. Will you have happened too: did you happen that someone, on the point in white, disappears from your life? Telephones, send Whattsapp, send email, but don’t you answer you? It happened to me several times. Obviously making me angry. Especially if I believed in this person. If it was, that is, someone I considered a friend; or if we had projects to develop together. Not to mention when my partner disappeared from circulation, as swallowed by the ground (this happened to me too!)
Who suddenly eclipses is a coward. Someone who does not have the courage to face you. Because it fears your reaction. And then he prefers to escape. It is legitimate to change her mind. It is possible to want to end relationships. But there is a way and way of doing it. Explain the reason is as responsible person. Escape is from cowardly. And if these unpleasant inconveniences happen to you, do not take it: it is a clear sign that with that person it is good to close.
Mario Furlan he was elected “Best Italian Life Coach” by the Italian Coach Association.