My son is twenty -seven years old, he graduated with flying colors, has an excellent job and a girlfriend who hates. I know that he is great and I am the mother who should not be, but it is not that a stop feeling about when the children grow up. She met this girl six months ago but she already introduced it to us, to all family friends, she brought her to all our homes for weekends and holidays and now they even talk about coexistence. I try to make myself even more unpleasant to his eyes explaining that the girl in question comes from an environment very different from ours and I believe that in the long run this can constitute a problem mainly for them two. But this is not just this to worry, I feel and I see that it is not a sincere person. Lies, omissions, inconsistent reconstructions … Every time that, together with my friends, I am looking for confirmation of what he says, I find no findings or discover oddities. In short, she hides something and he is my son. I know I shouldn’t but I think I will do everything to boycott this union.
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Dear E., but I understand it perfectly! Indeed, we agree as of now that she undertakes to call all her detective friends to collect and to unleash in an tireless stalking behind the first girlfriend that my son will take me home. In fact, I believe that my problem will be worse than his because I foresee I will hate that poor man even if he should be one to be worshiped. Materne follies aside, just to feed her “yellow” vein, I invite her to look at a miniseries on Prime who is titled “The Girlfriend” with (and of) The beautiful Robin Wright. But let’s get to us, indeed to his son and the unwelcome girlfriend. He will certainly know better than me who until he continues to oppose her baby will stick as if he were the last woman on the face of the earth. Very old but always valid scheme, unfortunately. So evaluate if, rather than openly boycotting the union is not better, rather, to bring its heir, with skill, to see certain things “alone”.
As for the intrudes in question, he tried to think about the fact that perhaps it is the first to feel uncomfortable in an environment so different from his and consequently, perhaps to try to be up to height or to feel less foreign, indiery some aspects of his life? Try to approach her a little more to her, to become her friend. I think it will serve them. In one case … and in the other.