For some years I have sold my company. The children took different paths and I must say that they all pride me, so even if I do not deny that I would like to pass my witness to them, I did not insist that much. It is more than right that everyone realizes as they believe. However, I must say that I had managed to set up a beautiful reality and if on the one hand he sold it a little intrusive, on the other he gave what to smile economically to me and the next generations of my family. Well. The idea I had made of this second phase of my life was to travel and enjoy time with my wife. In these years, for work, I have denied them so much. But we are still young and after all, it was worth sacrificing a little. I thought at least. Instead my wife has started to run away from me. Commitments with friends, beneficial projects, social commitments, grandchildren … it seems that it does not want to get our time. Any excuse is good and of all the projects I had in store for us, a couple will have gone through. But even on those occasions she has always been a little distant, a little loan. I don’t understand. How if he explains it?
MD
Dear MD, that of his wife would seem a full -blown revenge. In just one incident, she says an immense thing: “In recent years, for work, I have denied them so much”. Well understood, I don’t even escape the fact that with her work and sacrifice, today she can say that she has placed her children and her grandchildren for who knows how many years to come. And the fact of having guaranteed serenity to everyone, at least on this front, is something that must be really proud of: it was a skilled, responsible and generous thing for its part. Except that in these years, the sacrifice has obviously also been of his wife. The fact that she decided that now “your time” has arrived, does not necessarily mean that this is also the time of his wife. Probably she would have preferred to have a more present husband over the years and not only to finished commitments. And perhaps she felt alone or lost or frustrated.
An autonomous life as an intelligent person was built as it is certainly, but this does not mean that maybe he would have preferred to build it with her rather than just waiting for her. Try to restore the time you lost, rather than catapulting her in the new one decided only by her.