District Valeria Braghieri, reading the email published on August 23 in the address book, email entitled “If the lover is like a wife”, I feel flattered by understanding the correctness of my “theorem”: “lovers will move chronologically forward requests and ultimatum, for the Tapino on duty”. The poor man for osmosis physiologically absorbed the lover, “equalized” to his wife. A dinner that gave him five years of dreamlike fantasies but awakens him in the crowded reality of faults, his wife will hardly please the story of the choice he will announce …
Massimo Mormino
But of course, dear Massimo, that in the long run the lover becomes a wife. And this is because, as my director Vittorio Feltri explained many years ago, then arousing my youthful and naive indignation, “all women want to do a house”. Here, after a long time, I can tell her that the sentence continues to play badly but it is sacrosanctly true. When you are young, you stubbornly idealist and “attack” the form in a spasmodic way, to the detriment of the substance. Felt struck that absolute truth and I felt offended: it seemed to me that he wanted to liquidate all women like “women’s”. In reality he tells an all -female trend, to always want to “build”. Because the ladies cannot do without it. It is a splendid prerogative that leads them to never try to invest in empty relationships without perspective. And in fact, who would ever embark on a feat (not only love) without perspective? Little vital people. And women, by their very nature, are necessarily vital. Only a man, he is said without offense, can think of starting something on a dead track. For this reason, erroneously, they come across convinced extramarital relationships, poor, of the fact that the new, clandestine Menage will be completely different from the one that now afflicts them at home and that the lady in question will be so graceful and soothing that it does not demand anything in exchange. I repeat: poor people … still after millennia they continue to deliver the unaware and deluded to a new yoke.
And here I connect to another teaching of the great Feltri: “The lover who makes you dream at the beginning? It will end up behaving exactly like your wife, to “break your balls” in the same way. So you might as well keep what you have at home. At least he is your wife and he is the mother of your children ».