Good day Gentile Valeria, I am a “boy” who is 68 years old. Regarding what Mrs. Marina Fz wrote: as always dealing with certain topics in a few lines, it doesn’t make sense even if she does not miss an answer … I limit myself to some considerations: I think that the author of the letter is to move simple curiosity, after a “congruous” number of male attempts, she wants a change (you are never happy/or said. Nothing bad, on the contrary, curiosity is a great help to go on, find new stimuli and reasons for a commitment, but if I have understood well here the disappointment is for “man at home”. Now, beyond the obvious differences in a relationship between women, I would like to ask Mrs. Marina what she expects different from “a woman at home” compared to a man … it is a pleasure to read her in every writing.
Cordially
Oreste Cirelli
Dear Oreste, I am actually moved by its identical curiosity. Once under the same roof, perhaps two women could be more related to each other in the way to bend the towels, to take care of the plants or to respect their respective spaces. And in everyday life, in the long run, this is a type of harmony that certainly helps or if nothing else irritates less than the pachydermal conception of the boundaries of others who have certain men. But coexistence, as a rule, does not become unbearable because you have two different visions of how to organize the wardrobes. And I believe that the “genre” does not necessarily take you back from certain intolerance. I don’t know anything, I have to say, of sentimental relationships between women while I have male friends engaged to other males and I know for sure that the type of dynamic is identical to that woman-man in whom you discuss, argue, you grease yourself with each other and, at periods, you unbalance for the most varied reasons. So I would tend to think that even between two ladies, the risks are the same. I also believe, however, that Marina’s temptation originates from needs other than that of finding the perfect roommate.
If a person who has been for most of his heterosexual life thinks of a stretch of wanting to experiment with something else, I expect it for deeper and more edifying reasons of the correct collection of the differentiated. It means that the disappointment of Marina for “man at home” has extended far beyond the door.