Men are also victims of violence

Dear Director Feltri, What do you think of the horror that occurred in the province of Udine, where a man was killed and made to pieces by his mother and partner? It is not The …

Men are also victims of violence

Dear Director Feltri,

What do you think of the horror that occurred in the province of Udine, where a man was killed and made to pieces by his mother and partner? It is not

The case to stop with the narration of the woman always a victim?

Michele Marino

Dear Michele,

I think we are in front of a case so chilling as to make any ideological generalization inappropriate. In that house, more than a murder, a macabre ritual was made. A 35 -year -old man, father of a six -month -old girl, was killed, it seems after being stunned with drugs, made to pieces and thrown into a bin with the lime alive, to cover the smell of the corpse. His companion and mother of him would kill him. And I say they would be, because I respect the presumption of innocence, at least until sentence. But the contours of the story, to date, make the wrists tremble. It also seems that the motive is trivial: he had not set the table. Other sources say they were unemployed, with some vice, perhaps prone to alcohol. Agree. But we are not talking about a man who broke a life, we are talking about a man to whom life has been taken. With brutality. With inhumanity. And coldly. Discard it first, then to pieces the body, put it in a bin and hide it: it is not a

raptus. It is a procedure. A horror screenplay. A calculated decision. A plan designed by two women who orchestrated a butcher shop, where the sacrificed was his son for one and the father of his daughter for the other. However, you will not find events in the square. No slogan. No shirt with #giustiziaperlui written on it. No conference with experts to discuss toxic matriarchy. No mobilization. Why? Because man, when he dies, does not move anything. It is irrelevant victim. We will try to attribute to him that they can somehow lighten the gravity of the crime placed by this female family clan, checked of blood rather than exasperated, because, I repeat it, if you are tired of a certain trend, do not kill, at most beat the son or partner parasite outside the house.

The fact that the killing was committed by two women disrespecting the cards of current ideology, who would like violence male exclusive monopoly. But no. Violence

It is a transversal poison. It has no gender. It has only one origin: the human being. The human being when inhumanize. So let’s stop with the nonsense of femicide as a criminal category to itself. A murder is a murder. He does not become more serious if he dies a woman at the hands of a man. And it does not become less serious if a man dies. The killing of a human being is always a collective defeat. Equality, if we really want to reach it, begins from here: with a fair and not ideological gaze on death.

And one last thing, bitter yet true: when a mother makes her child to pieces, and a woman pieces the father of his daughter, we are already beyond crime. We are in the degeneration of the human. In monstrosity. No feminism can absolve it. No patriarchy can justify it.

It is pure horror.