Dear Mrs. Valeria Braghieri, I am writing to her “heart mail” to say mine about marriage life; In my opinion, many marriages end badly because many, perhaps too many, men are psychologically speaking castrated by prevailing feminism (not to mention the aggravating circumstance of the “pseudo-culture” Woke) and consequently they are confused, disoriented because they are deprived of what were once their confident points of reference. Women should first understand that men as they are only can be accepted or rejected with the whole corollary of their many defects and few virtues.
Best regards,
Maurizio Canarutto
Dear Maurizio, you invite me to a consideration that I have been doing for some time. When I hear the words “male chauvinism” and “patriarchate” I always think they contain too much masculinity and testosterone compared to that expressed by today’s men. The social drama to which we have arrived (which is expressed in abuses, feminicides, violence of all kinds) is a brought of weakness, not strength. You attribute the fault of this short circuit of relationships to women, which seems truly paradoxical to me. The point is not the position achieved by the female sex, as much as the positions lost by the male sex. Do you know what the very sad truth is? That there are not fifty, but one hundred shades of Turetta. What makes it small, vindictive, toxic, obsessive and ruthless the males of our days is precisely the fact of having lost the identity and not knowing how to move and in which direction. The males become persecutors and at the limit even assassins, not because they are “too” male, but, on the contrary, because they are not “more” males. However hateful and violent, the expressions abused today to tell the abuses of men towards women, always refer to an excessive virility (distorted but excessive), typical of other times. Today, the problem, in my opinion, is precisely the opposite: the males no longer feel such or, in any case, they no longer know how to be. Virility, which also brings with it, meaning of positive, protective and caretivating force is completely dead.
And today’s Turetta are the product of a genre that no longer knows where to position themselves in society: they do not hunt, do not provide, do not keep, they are no longer the only ones who drive. To be terrified by women are only those who know they are not men.