Very kind Valeria, I would like to have his honest opinion on what emerges from the letters of his readers and readers. Maybe I represent a rare case but I met my wife Giuliana on high school benches. Both 14 years old and both at the first teenage crush. Then after a long courtship and a long relationship we got married. And this year we will celebrate 40 years of marriage with a few quarrels but no extravagance, betrayal or diversification (as our Director Feltri calls it). In my opinion, the courtship has the sole purpose of the relationship between the two not that of “inducing in temptation” as it seems to me transpire in its response … I hope to go wrong but I deduce that the loyalty in a couple is linked to the “total absence »Of suitor? Well! After 50 years I continue to woo and surprise my wife just like at the time of high school. What I read then from the other previous letters in my opinion is not connected so much to adolescent transgression rather to the whims and to the typically childish unusual to get stove of that toy and want another … and at this point I conclude with a consideration: it will perhaps be A long courtship is prodromal to an equally long relationship while a short (or rather non -existent!) Cortening will then lead to the fickle effervescence of current relationships?
Pier Paolo
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Dear Pier Paolo, I do not doubt that even today there are women and men willing to keep together a union in front of the inevitable drop in mutual attention that catches couples after a long time. We would miss that this was not the case. Perhaps taking the packed responsibility of the routine also means not feeling the need to tell each other in a column of the heart, because in fact, the letters that arrive are often full of restlessness. Which does not make the commitment of those who love each other with constant and confidentiality less important.
But as he writes, love, more than long lasting, would always need care and maintenance, so much so that she courts her wife after fifty years of union. For this reason I do not feel like condemning the error or dissatisfaction of those who are not lucky enough for a partner as careful as you.